人生

既有相濡以沫的准备,也有相忘于江湖的决心。
既可以毅然决然的爱你,也可以毅然决然的离开你。

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人生

真正有修养的人,会懂得适时保持沉默,从不会急于表达自己,一吐为快。因为在你看不到的角落,多的是你不知道的事。

有些人、有些事真的不必耿耿于怀,也不必记恨整个世界。看的淡了,一切就变得简单。释怀,就在那么一瞬间。

很多人闯进你的生活,只是为了给你上一课,然后转身离开。

我们唯一能做的,就是怀着一颗感恩的心,从容地过好眼前的每一天。对你好的人,用力珍惜。不在乎你的人,绝不强留。

属于你的,永远都在。不是你的,强求不来。

爱情

从心理学上,爱不是一种情感,而是一种博弈。女人真正可爱,是从她们拥有自由开始。当女人身上有了不可被把控之处,她才有了可与岁月抗衡的魅力;她放眼天地的时候,眼里有了光,心里也有了善良。

男人之美在于大度;女人之美在于善良;孩子之美在于天真;家庭之美在于和谐;生活之美在于品位;朋友之美在于真诚。

幸福的婚姻,从来都不是谁攀缘了谁,不是谁滋养了谁,而是两个独立的个体,彼此独立,相互成就。

两个人相处的最佳状态

不嫉妒,不迎合,有话聊,不尴尬。

人与人相处,需要一种关系定位。
只有定位好了,也说服了自己,方能轻松。

瑞卡斯说过:世间最好的默契,并非有人懂你的言外之意,而是有人懂你的欲言又止。

我不问 + 你不说 = 误会
我问了 + 你不说 = 隔阂
我问了 + 你说了 = 尊重
你想说 + 我想问 = 默契
我不问 + 你说了 = 信任

超感猎杀

Sense8 (TV show, web image)

超感猎杀》这个电视剧我倒是完完整整的看了一遍。8个人共享感官原来是这种体验。

德国狼哥太酷,身材也太好。有他打打杀杀,这个戏有点黑手党的看点。冰岛女,没有什么用,但是人家长的好看,又是DJ,没有她这部戏就80%的看头 – 音乐是这部戏的重头戏!德国狼哥有手枪,韩国姐姐用功夫,打的漂亮极了。那对暖男夫夫,拉丁美洲的帅哥,看的就是他们的颜值。

超感组的几位都是边缘人物,同性恋,悲催身世,通缉罪犯,异能,异族恋,黑暗机构,应有尽有。可见编剧的一片苦心。他们几个神人的背后必然会有一个组要织追杀要灭了他们。几个俊男靓女做做做啪啪啪之后,还要忙着反追杀,反人类,很是幸苦。

Sense8 (TV show, web image)

戏的配角,配景,配乐都是上品,看着听着就会上瘾。几个俊男靓女非常养眼。做做做啪啪啪的镜头太多,若是没有删节的原版,一定是18🈲️的!

开始的情节比较紧凑,后面打来打去,不过如此,也没有什么新意。好在编剧见好就收,反而让人觉得意犹未尽。聪明!想要消遣的话,这部戏可以一看,3/5颗星。


Mary Kills People

Mary Kills People (TV show web image)

Mary Kills People tells the story of Mary Harris, who works at the emergency department of the Eden General Hospital by day but illegally provides the “end of life counsellor” service on the side.

Of course, such a “business” is high maintenance, her life is soon becoming very complicated. The police are on her back, the drug dealer, the sister, the children and her problematic partner.

Weeds (TV show, web image)
Breaking Bad (TV show, web image)

Mary Kills People will remind you of cult shows such as Weeds or Breaking Bad. It’s a bit weird, a bit out of there, a bit dark, and a bit edgy. Mary, Nancy and Walter all have this “life changing” experiences with drugs and drug dealers. Death, on the other side, are all their excuses to the drama they are in, drugs, drug dealers and death. Mary is very attractive while Nancy has the charisma, Walter has his intelligence.

Some say Mary is an advocate of Physician-assisted death, and this show brings up the discussion of euthanasia. The show is portraying death as a moment of celebration – “there is beauty in the inevitable”. It’s never delved into the topic any deeper though. It became just a thing that Mary does. Too much screen time is spent on Mary’s personal life drama.

Season 1 was refreshing but season 2 became a slow burn. Season 3 is showing now. What do you thing? Is it worth watching?

Alan Watts

Faith is a state of openness or trust. To have faith is like when you trust yourself to the water. You don’t grab hold of the water when you swim, because if you do you will become stiff and tight in the water, and sink. You have to relax, and the attitude of faith is the very opposite of clinging, and holding on.


In other words, a person who is fanatic in matters of religion, and clings to certain ideas about the nature of God and the universe becomes a person who has no faith at all. Instead they are holding tight. But the attitude of faith is to let go, and become open to truth, whatever it might turn out to be.

Alan Watts