人生

既有相濡以沫的准备,也有相忘于江湖的决心。
既可以毅然决然的爱你,也可以毅然决然的离开你。

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两个人相处的最佳状态

不嫉妒,不迎合,有话聊,不尴尬。

人与人相处,需要一种关系定位。
只有定位好了,也说服了自己,方能轻松。

瑞卡斯说过:世间最好的默契,并非有人懂你的言外之意,而是有人懂你的欲言又止。

我不问 + 你不说 = 误会
我问了 + 你不说 = 隔阂
我问了 + 你说了 = 尊重
你想说 + 我想问 = 默契
我不问 + 你说了 = 信任

When You Are Old

When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;
How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;
And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.

☘️ W B Yeats